The Queer Relationship Bootcamp for Couples and Relationships
Ready to Grow
If your relationship feels more distant than connected… this is your moment.
A self-paced bootcamp for queer partners ready to talk about what really matters.
No waiting room. No awkward live calls. Just you, your partner or partners, and a path forward.
You Didn’t Come This Far Just to Feel Misunderstood.
You love each other, but it feels like you’re stuck in the same loop.
The intimacy is fading.
The future feels uncertain.
Talking about sex, money, or long-term plans ends in tension—or total silence.
It’s painful… and it’s lonely.
This course was made to help you move through that—together. With structure, compassion, and guidance built for our queer community.
Pain Triggers:
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You're stuck in the same arguments with no resolution
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Sex feels like a chore—or isn't happening at all
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You’re afraid to talk about money or your future together
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You love each other… but you’re drifting apart
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You want support, but typical resources weren’t made for us
You deserve a course that sees your love, names your challenges, and honors your identity.
A Structured Course Created for Queer Couples!
This Bootcamp Is For You If...
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You want to improve communication with your partner—but don’t know where to start
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You’re looking for a queer version of premarital or pre-commitment coaching
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You want a safe, structured way to finally talk about sex, finances, and the future
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You’re tired of guessing what your partner needs or hopes for—and ready to ask
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You love the idea of self-paced learning—without pressure, awkward live calls, or scheduling stress
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You want to nurture your relationship in a way that honors your queer identity, your timing, and your love
This isn’t therapy.
It’s the course you take when you know something needs to shift—when you're ready to reconnect with your partner and move forward together.
A course designed for you!
INTRODUCING
Queer Relationship Bootcamp Course
A fully self-paced relationship course made by and for LGBTQIA2S+ folx. Whether you’re dating, pre-committed, or just ready to level up your communication, this course gives you the tools to build the kind of relationship you’ve been craving.
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Structure that helps you talk through sex, finances, and your future—without the stress.
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Exercises made for real queer relationships, not cookie-cutter templates.
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Guided prompts that encourage depth, vulnerability, and connection.
Whether you're newly committed or years in, this course gives you the structure and tools to reconnect deeply and talk about what really matters.
Stop avoiding the tough stuff.
Start talking—with structure, clarity, and care.
Enroll Now!
What’s Inside?
Five Modules. Eighteen Lessons.
All Queer-Centered.
You get lifetime access to:
✔️ Short video lessons that get to the point
✔️ Worksheets and conversation guides for every topic
✔️ Flexible pacing—take it one week at a time or binge it all
MODULE 1
Queer Relationship Fundamentals
Learn what makes queer relationships unique, and what makes them thrive
- 3 Lessons
- 3 Worksheets/Exercises
MODULE 2
Communication
Talk without spiraling. Reconnect after conflict. Learn to listen and be heard.
- 5 Lessons
- 6 Worksheets/Exercises
MODULE 3
Helpful Habits
Rewire how you show up every day—repair rituals, shared meaning, and emotional safety.
- 3 Lessons
- 3 Worksheets/Exercises
MODULE 4
Talking about Sex and Money
Finally talk about desire, power, finances, and boundaries without shame or shutdown.
- 4 Lessons
- 4 Worksheets/Exercises
MODULE 4
Our Shared Queer Future
Build a vision you can both get behind—aligned, inclusive, and affirming.
- 3 Lessons
- 3 Worksheets/Exercises
This Bootcamp Is Not For You If...
🚫You're in serious relationship distress or crisis—please find a relationship therapist or coach
🚫You’re uncomfortable with LGBTQIA2S+ identities (this space is unapologetically queer)
🚫You prefer live, real-time teaching rather than self-paced lessons
🚫You’re not interested in growing, communicating, or evolving together
If you’re still reading,
this course was made for you.
Not the version of you that “has it all figured out.”
The version that’s brave enough to want better—and ready to work toward it with love.
Let’s rebuild intimacy.
Let’s bring clarity to the hard conversations.
Let’s make your relationship something you’re both proud of—again.
NICE TO MEET YOU
I'm Tom Bruett
I am a therapist, trainer, consultant, and author of The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men published by JKP. My work is dedicated to supporting the queer community. As the founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, I provide specialized therapy for queer individuals and couples, along with expert training for therapists working with queer relationships.
With advanced training under Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson in the Developmental Model, I bring a powerful, proven approach to relationship therapy. My mission is to equip therapists with the skills and tools they need to help their clients build thriving, fulfilling relationships. Strong relationships create strong communities—and strong communities lead to deeper, more connected, and meaningful lives.
Grow Together or Grow Apart?
The Choice Is Yours.
The truth is, most relationships don’t fall apart from one big issue.
They fade from disconnection, avoidance, and fear.
This course gives you the chance to show up differently—together.
To stop avoiding the hard stuff.
To build something intentional.
To talk about sex, finances, and the future with clarity.
If you want more for your relationship,
you can start today!
No waiting room. No awkward live calls. Just you, your partner, and a path forward.
SECURE YOUR SPOT TODAY!
Queer Relationship Bootcamp Course
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a replacement for therapy?
Can we work at our own pace?
Will this apply to my specific queer identity?
How long do we have access to the course?
How long will it take to complete?
Have questions? I’m happy to answer them!
You can reach me by emailing tom at queerrelationshipinstitute.com.