Hosted by gay sex and relationship therapist and published author Tom Bruett, this show dives deep into what it really means to be in relationship with yourself and others as a gay, queer, or trans person today. 

Each episode features candid conversations with leading experts in psychology, sex therapy, wellness, culture, and LGBTQIA2S+ lived experience. 

Together, we explore the complexities of queer love, intimacy, identity, and connection - without shame, without scripts, and without pretending we have it all figured out. If you’re craving smarter, braver, more honest conversations about what it means to build and sustain authentic queer relationships, you’re in the right place.

Format

Each episode explores topics related to gay and queer relationships. The format is interview style, with Tom exploring topics such as sex, intimacy, vulnerability and relationship challenges with the expert guest. Sometimes the podcast also explores current events, art, literature and media that speaks to issues relevant to gay and queer men.  

Host

Tom Bruett, LMFT, CST is a sex and relationship therapist, trainer, consultant, and author who works extensively with the queer community. He is the founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, which provides therapy for queer folx and training for therapists who work with queer relationships. Tom has trained under Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson in the Developmental Model of Relationship Therapy, which he now trains other therapists in. His book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men: From Honeymoon to Lasting Commitment is published by JKP. Tom has been on multiple podcasts including Happy, Healthy Homo, Sex and Psychology with Justin LehMiller and The Couples Therapist Couch.  On his podcast, The Gay Relationship Podcast, he interviews experts in the field on topics relevant to gay and queer relationships. He’s also an accomplished speaker and presenter and has spoken at national conferences like ASSECT. In his downtime, he loves theatre, travel, and collaborating with his partner to keep their rescue dog, Millie, from causing too much mischief. 

Podcast Listeners

• 96% Male, ages 25-65+
• 44% US listeners, the rest divided between
• Australia, New Zealand, UK and Canada
• YouTube 23.4k podcast views
• YouTube top videos get around 6k views
• New and growing audience!

Social Stats

• 6,500 YouTube Subscribers
• 3,500 Instagram Subscribers
• 1,000+ Podcast Streams on Spotify and iTunes

Potential Guest Inquiries

We are always interested in potential guests who are members of the LGBTQIA2S+ community, are experts in their field, and have something unique to say about Gay and Queer Relationship.  

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